Hey Tee

she has been in therapy years ago and she said she didn’t take anything from it and that it doesn’t help her. I didn’t know anything about pseudo seizures until I met her. It is triggered from a few different situations, but you’re right mainly during sex. Although it wasn’t common at first I did notice it more frequently as time went on. It was something I could always bring her back from and she always new she was safe during it and told me that I did the right thing every time.

I think you’re spot on about the remarks. She did take certain things the wrong way at first but again always realized I wasn’t trying to bring her down in the end. This was helped by me explaining to her my point of view and making it obvious as I could that I did actually love her.

You are probably right as the key thing would be therapy in order to have a higher self esteem and overcome her trauma. That’s all I wanted for her to start feeling better in her own skin. I did have a feeling therapy may be the only way and that’s why I suggested professional help on several occasions. Regardless I just want her to know I am here for support during her journey, however that may be.

I will be sending a card and poem soon so wish me luck. I have kept it from being too heartfelt as I don’t want to push her over the edge.