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Hi Saggad!
I’m glad that you found all of our messages helpful and know what you need to do now.
Ah right, so you were angry at yourself for not being able to forgive. I hope that you aren’t now? Feeling that you wanted to forgive but can’t quite get there just speaks to your character. Perhaps forgiveness will occur naturally in time? You do have a beautiful heart! Wanting to forgive is perhaps more than she deserves right now. For now, perhaps simply wanting to forgive is enough? I do hope that your pain over this situation eases a little every day.
For people who have deeply wronged me after a long time and a lot of healing. I found that I can pray for them and hope that they learn from their mistakes and become better people and that they are guided on this journey. This is as much forgiveness as I can achieve.
P.S. Thanks for the warm welcome Brandy! Nice to be back 😊 It certainly made me chuckle when Tee and I wrote and posted similar replies at the exact same time.
Wishing ya’ll all the best! 🙏