Anita,

thank you so much for your reply and thoughts on the previous message. The car driving comparison is really eye-opening. I need to proccess deeply all of your suggestions and make myself a plan on how I can start doing more for myself and less for my mother to feel happier.

I give myself a few days to think through of what you have written and will come back to disscuss more on that.

Thank you once again for taking your time. Your knowledge and ability to help is just unbelievable to me. I have met so many theraposts and none of them were able to find the core issue, nor came closer to what we are talking about.
I am so happy that I decided to write in this forum and received such help. Anita, thank you once again!

Milda