Dear Seaturtle:

I will reply Thurs morning, but for now:  is there anything specifically you think I should evaluate about N?”- I misspoke when I suggested to reevaluate N: I didn’t mean to evaluate him further. I meant to let the re-evaluation already done sink in. The past evaluation was that he was a stand up guy and an emotionally supportive boyfriend. The re-evaluation is that he has been a dishonestly manipulative boyfriend, a gaslighter. More tomorrow.

anita