Dear Renn:

“Does he love me?.. I think I might love him. But… how do I know! And what do I even do about it. I’m not sure that I’m ready for these big feelings. It’s scary!… Please help!“-

– when overwhelmed with feelings, one way (“happy rainbow and sunshine“), or another (“It’s scary!… Please help“) , key is to calm down and when calm, think rationally and make thoughtful choices according to your values. Have your values guide you above your feelings of the moment.

You asked if he (the second guy) loves you. Define love, if you will: what does love mean to you?

anita