Dear Blazkowich:

“I told her ‘it’s fine just focus on your mental well-being for now, that’ll be enough for me and if you need anything I’ll always be here“- that’s a loving thing to say, I am impressed. And good thing you didn’t guilt trip her during the relationship.

Here is what I suggest: think of the relationship and the breakup as a course of study, an experience from which you are supposed to learn life lessons, lessons about people (you, her): what positively motivates people, what turns people off, what causes problems, what brings (or could bring) solutions.. how to prevent problems from happening in the first place, etc.

When you are calm and awake enough, re-read our 3-page communication and take notes in regard to what I mentioned in the paragraph above, and submit a study post for me next, if you would like to. I will soon be away from the computer and back in about 12 hours from now).

anita