Dear Worldofthewaterwheels.

Common advice is to join a club doing something you like or volunteering. Both of these activities are good as they take us away from the unrealities of cyberworld and connect us to real people & places. I prefer to volunteer, as clubs can be quite competitive.

Having a negative bias has been  a necessary part of our survival instincts from the beginning of humankind without it we would have become extinct as a species a long time ago.  Most people have no interest in becoming more aware about  how humans function on a biological/psychological scale and therefore just pinball through their lives without considering that a more compassionate and wise way of living is possible for both themselves and or society.  I hope that you will come to feel that the people of Tiny Buddha land are your electronic tribe who compassionately care about each others well-being.

kind regards

roberta