Dear Renn:

Thank you for the two examples: the first was bamboozingly positive- you helped your friend pause before making rash decisions and consider her boyfriend’s intention and the need for improved communication. (I would have loved to have you as my friend when I was a teenager/ 20+… 30+ 40+ )!

The second example: I wish your mother considered your mature and wise advice. She is older than you.. but you are wiser than her (in regard to the example you gave, at the least).

You are a good person- your intent is to help your sister and your mother!

“He can be really moody sometimes and I’m not going to lie, it just really gets on my nerves. it doesn’t even make me sad it just really makes me angry. I’m worried that my Ex who moved away will always have something over me, because he made me feel SO comfortable at the start“-

– (1) watch for idealizing your ex because of experiencing discontent with the current boyfriend. Remember that you felt so comfortable with the ex AT THE START, not later.

(2) I am not surprised that moodiness angers you, being that you are as practical as you are and not into overthinking and ruminating. I was just wondering: is your boyfriend moody similarly to how your mother (may be..?) moody?

anita