Dear Caroline:

You are welcome!

You would feel better if you weren’t beating yourself right now (“How could I make such a stupid decision…. Why did I do this to myself. Why do I make such stupid decisions“)- you are adding pain on top of pain when you do this.

It wasn’t a stupid mistake and you weren’t stupid for making a choice to accept this job.

“I feel hopeless“- because you think that you are not qualified to make good choices,, but it’s not true, it only feels this way.

I so wish (!!!) that you’d feel better, Caroline, starting with having some faith in yourself. I have faith in you!

anita