Thank you, I don’t know if I could cut off contact, I promised to him I wouldn’t when he had a breakdown at the thought of it. I wouldn’t do that to him. I just want to be there for him in whatever capacity. I don’t want to miss enjoying him, spending time with him, missing parts of his life and watching him succeed, he’s also said the same.

Do you think we just need time and his feelings will return?

How would I broach the topic of avoidant attachment? I don’t want to push him further away.