* Dear Tommy:

What a revolutionary idea (for me!): I never thought of controlling one’s fear by (1) Recognizing the conditions that scare me, (2) Planning to not feel the fear before those conditions happen. I never heard or read such an idea and I am going to put it into practice in the next day or so… she how it works. Thank you, Tommy!

* Dear Shanna: since the original didn’t reply to you, would you to address a question to other members (here or in your own thread, if you choose to start one?)

anita