Dear IMBACK:

“I question a bit if I have BPD… I’m not sure about anything anymore… I might just have to break up, because something is wrong and I am for some reason pointing fingers at my relationship.“- I used to be as confused as you are, maybe even more confused than you are, and for a long time. What a relief it is to have clarity!

Clarity is way, way better than Confusion, and it can- it must- happen for you too: confusion replaced by clarity!

Please keep in mind that it’s okay to end a romantic relationship, it’s not a crime. It happens every day in every part of the world and people survive; many times, people are better for it.

I wish you courage, strength and patience, and may the force be with you (it’s a Star Wars saying)!

anita