Hi Katherine

It sounds like he has a very good reason for why he must leave. Long distance while doing medical studies would be near impossible. It’s a very difficult course that takes a lot of focus. I don’t think it means that he doesn’t care about you. It is just his circumstances that are difficult. It is true that he is choosing his studies and moving country over you but it is actually a healthy thing for him to be doing that. This was probably a dream that he has worked towards for his whole life. It would be wrong for him to give it up.

You care for him, so try to understand his circumstances and support his dreams even though it hurts and is difficult. You never know what may happen in the future and he will remember your understanding and supportive behaviour.

I know that this situation hurts and I’m sorry for that pain that you’re going through. None of it reflects poorly on you or his feelings towards you. Sometimes life is just hard and difficult. It is up to you whether you want to stay and treasure the memories with him before he leaves, or save yourself the pain of that since it is already painful.

Wishing you all the best! 🙏❤️