Dear Seaturtle:

I read just a bit of your recent post (about to leave for a walk), but in regard to this: “He said with words ‘I don’t think you owe me anything.’ his actions, and undertone behind words says otherwise“- my idea of sending him cash is good only if you ask him if he thinks that you owe him money, telling him that if you do, you are willing to repay him as soon as you can, and the  he answers Yes, that he believes you owe him.

If he says that you don’t owe him, regardless of the dishonesty in his claim, then forget it, you don’t owe him any money. More later.

anita