Hi Meatball

She isn’t suicidal when she doesn’t deal with her feelings or do therapy. Sadly, therapy for intense issues can destabilise a person. She would be confronting all of the pain of the worst things that ever happened to her. It is a very challenging experience.

Couples counselling may be more useful to you both initially. It isn’t as stressful as individual therapy. It may also give you both an opportunity to work on the problems in your relationship. Perhaps after a good experience with couples counselling she would be more willing to entertain individual therapy?

Wishing you all the best! 🙏❤️