Dear Arie1276:

I am very pleased to read from you again! We first communicated in your first thread on Feb 16, 2022. That was..  less than 2 months before you met your current husband for the first time (April 1, 2022).  After not posting for about 2.5 months, you submitted a post for me on March 21, 2023 and on  June 4, 2023, telling me that you are doing well, that you were married for 10 months at that point, and that you went on a nice vacation with your husband 2 weeks before, that it was like a 2nd honeymoon.

I wasn’t able to reply to your 3/21 and 6/4 posts because I deleted my account sometime in Feb 2023. Soon after I returned to the forums, under a different account, I submitted a post for you in your previous thread, on Sept 15, 2023 (“Dear Arie1276: I hope that you are still doing well, over three months since your last post above. I don’t know if you are still following the activity on your thread, so if you are reading this and would like to talk further, please let me know”).

Again, good to read from you again!

And now to this thread and your original post:

“The following morning, I received a nasty text from her. She proceeded to tell me I was a slut and a boyfriend stealer…“- yes, I remember, you shared about this before, and I remember that it greatly distressed you.

“We did end up reconciling and started hanging out again.   Then I was gonna play match maker and set up a date with a male friend and Amy.  Well my male friend confessed he liked me and wanted to date me.  I said no.  I told Amy this“- oh, oh. I wish you didn’t tell her that, it’d only cement her jealousy!

“and again she accused me and told me she didn’t trust me and I steal everyone…  She would also not speak to me or any of my family members during family gatherings. Instead she would cling to her bf like someone is going to steal him from her.  Which is sad! Real friends don’t act this way“- I would completely give up on the idea of being friends with her, and no longer hang out with her outside family gatherings to which you are both invited as family. And I would keep a polite, light and minimal exchange with her during the family gatherings; nothing more, nothing less.

anita