Dear Clara:

It’s a shame that the logistics were not properly addressed because if you both agreed on a specific date (and the time in the day) that the break will end, and who will contact whom on that way, and in what way (text, phone call, a meeting in-person), and if you both agreed that there will be no contact until that date, then maybe you could put it out of your mind.

But with no clear parameters to the break and you telling her to contact you if she wants to talk during the supposed break.. makes it very difficult. I mean, once you invited her to contact you during the break, you invalidated the break. There is no break when the agreement is that one of the parties may contact the other.

anita