Dear Clara:

“I am a bit confused as to why you think the nature was not clear, is it because I said it she could contact me..?“- yes, because the way it is, you are waiting for her to contact you any day, anytime. No wonder this is so difficult for you. If you expected absolute no contact for 30 days, let’s say, you could have some peace of mind for 29 days.

As is, you expect that she may call you anytime, any day, but she expects you to not contact her for a month?

anita