Hi Helcat

Thanks for your reply.

I think she forgot about this, but it is often these oblivious actions that  hurt me. She thought it was ok for me to hang them, which triggered me to really call her to tell, that this is really not ok.

I feel the same, that she said she decided to leave, but then it seems she has not thought about what that means. She decided to take a break, and she does not seem to know what that means, even after more than a month. When she really needs to move things, she seems pretty devastated, I am really unsure why and how should I react to it.

She didn’t mention changing her mind. After yesterday she said she would try to arrange movers by the weekend.

Clara