Dear Clara:

Good 10 am morning to you!

“I am not thinking to pursue her back or continue the relationship when she hasn’t grown or changed“- good thing!

“I am more thinking how did I not see this“- the heart sees what the heart wants to see.

“how should I see it clearer next time“- add logic to the heart, There is an equation my therapist taught me back in the day: wise mind= rational mind (logic) + emotional mind (the heart).

“may be open my eyes wider, and my ears as well next time. instead of being swept away by the emotions of falling in love“- I wrote the above before I read these two sentences: we are on the same page!

“thanks, have a good night“- you are welcome and thank you!  Still light outside, no wind, no air movement outside the glass window. Wed 10:08 am where you are at, Tues 7:08 pm here.

anita