Thanks Matt. Couldnt agree more !

Shellie

Let your ex-BFs go. They are not hanging on to you but you are. It may sound bizarre to your mind but hey, ask your heart and you will find the same answer. Matt explains it more compassionately in his post above as to why we do such things. Things flourish where our attention goes. Stop giving this issue your attention and they will wither away.

May you find the courage to move on to better things. You are worth it.

J