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Jane
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Thanks Crystal for your reply. I had an uneasy night full of anxiousness so reading your post this am made me feel better and got me really thinking today. We spoke briefly last night and I let him know that I’m feeling unappreciated and I’m not happy where we are at right now. I was calm and collected. I dont know what got into to me to speak up, I actually wanted to wait but it just came out. I basically said I’m feeling unsure how things are between us and that I’m feeling unappreciative and all I want to do is make him happy and if hes not happy or unable to communicate with me then why and how can we stay together? He was responsive and reassured me that wasn’t his intentions but I still feel he was just being an ear for me to vent and just being nice to avoid conflict. I just don’t feel he was sincere. Even after the conversation, which is still left open cause it was quite late, he hasn’t made an effort to reach out even through a simple text today. Wouldnt one do that if the other person cares about the others feelings being left hurt? Its pains me yet I’m trying to see him for what he is and how hes acting. I meditated as usual today but found it difficult to just “be”. I feel so hurt, confused, and anxious I don’t know how to deal with it all at the moment. If he continues to neglect this situation how do I bring this up again? And to answer your question, yes I love this man and want a future. Its not being in love that im in love with. Ive been happy and content single and I know I can do that again, it just takes time. Truthfully, what would cause him to act this way? Was I blind to see that he truly loved me? I felt he did yet now Im confused with all of this going on…