Hi Ashlie,

I’ve been down on myself before. Some things that pulled me up and forward that you might try. As Moon says live:

– eating really well getting into a different relationship with food
– getting a good nights sleep
– exercising starting with things that are easy and working up from there
– losing 5-10-15+’pounds initially gives you a new feel – keep going
– getting to the fitness and weight that would serve you (in your case you want to be a mom)
– scanning articles and books on self help – they will give you some tips and show you are not alone
– watching videos like Ted talks that inspire and educate you
– accomplishing something
– being kind to yourself
– spending time with family and friends
– pursuing your interests
– saying hi to people (there’s your elevator solution)
– meeting people including guys in person
– getting out in the community maybe a fundraiser
– avoiding most or all of TV
– being with people who have a strong positive influence of you

You get the idea. Does this make sense? Which ones are you doing or could you start doing?

Would this help you to prepare for the right guy and motherhood?

Big blue