Heya,

I find your situation a hard one. I don’t think it’s a good idea to move in with a woman you do not love. That will only end badly and especially if you have children from a different partner as they will find it confusing and need a stable loving home. I think you’re doing it for the wrong reasons. I would tell her how you feel so it’s all out in the open. It won’t be easy, but she can’t fire you because you do not love her. Be strong… do what is right for you… don’t do something because you’ll have a nicer place to sleep and a job. That’s not what happiness is… that’s just convenience. I hope you find the answer you need. X