Hi Kaelyn,
It’s tragic when a person is caught with this terrible thing.
My dad. My dad was untreated, kept it somewhat together and stuck it out the great generation way. It was no picnic for our family. He died of other causes at an old age.
You have to take care of yourself, and as an adult you have choices.
Unless you are codependent. Are you, and if so are you getting help yourself? If not you’ll stick with him even if you are harmed, or you’ll find someone else like him if you do leave.
I just re-read my response and it is rightly sobering and I mean that very seriously.
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