Hi There!

I know this is a spiritual website and we’re still evolving (some, like you, on purpose!) but here’s the thing ~

Most humans can get jealous. We just do. No conditioning, no past experience, no bad modeling. It’s bred in the bone. We are jealous. We just are. Even God in the Old Testament is a jealous God. He admits it! He is so jelly that He put it in one of the Commandments in stone “…for I am a jealous God…” There’s nothing to understand, manage or overcome.

You can say, “Dear Heart, on a spiritual, friendship, platonic level, I’m glad you are finding happiness. But the work colleague and the pretty young FB thing is an irritant for me.” And then ~ don’t see him! Be busy. Take a break. Do other things. Date other people. Unplug social media. Once you have space in your thoughts, heart and soul then see how he’s doing. He might be doing great! But you will be detached from it to a degree.

Honestly? Give it a year.