Hi Trevor

You sound like a very young soul from your post.

Firstly, there is nothing wrong with you or your suppressed or non-existent urges. You are awesome as you are. Instead of trying to find help outside to get you past this hurdle, can we perhaps look inside.

I am amazed with the self work that you have already done on figuring out your self-limiting beliefs. However, to blame them on your mother is not a positive step forward. We need to let the blame go. Hey, we all have many self-limiting beliefs, which have been given to us from our conditioning in this world. However, the person who is able to acknowledge that and put in the self-work, which is required, achieves all good things in life.

When Trevor is able to be just Trevor, I am very confident that you will be able to get your mojo back. Trevor has been living someone else’s life upto this day despite living in the moment. Let the real Trevor come out with love and nurture.

Hey, everyone in this world is looking for acceptance. But it all starts with self. When you are able to accept Trevor for who he is, you wont have time for your self-limiting beliefs when you meet a new partner. You will be able to accept her for who she is and openly communicate your needs to her and you will also allow her to do the same. This helps to form a balanced and respectful relationship. If the relationship doesn’t work out for whatever reasons, take the positives out of it and learn the lessons for the future. What is the need to keep hanging on to the hurt, fear and guilt ? What does this achieve for anyone ?

There must be some beautiful lessons that you could have learnt from your last break up ? Have you learnt anything new about yourself from that experience ? If yes, awesome. If not, look again. Every stumbling block, which has been put in our path is to take us to bigger and better things. Those who realise this keep marching forward. Those who do not realise that get stuck in the rut and keep learning the same lessons again and again.

Do you get the point ? Does this make sense ?

Loads of positive energy coming your way and here’s to an awesome Trevor who is marching forward with pride. He respects himself greatly and he offers the same respects to every other individual or thing, which comes in front of him.

Jasmine