Thanks Big Blue / Bruce. Love the new phrase kick-in-the-pants. Have not used the phrase before but that’s exactly what I had intended to do with the post to Bruce. We are always so hard on ourselves due to fear of something or someone but often forget to realise that the child in us is tormenting not because of anyone else but just us. Who is going to tend to that child ? And the more we repeat our sorrows in written form or in our mind, the longer the process continues. Every action leads to an outcome (even if we do not believe in spirituality or any religion) and if all of us were told early on that whatever we think about or feel strongly about, the thing is going to become a reality in life, then perhaps we wont be so hard on ourselves.

Thanks John (love your last paragraph) and Matt.

Have a lovely Monday.

Jasmine