Unfortunately I am in a similar scenario, and I’m writing this as I try to hold it together after rereading her last text messages to me for the hundredth time… I thought things were going very well, we had just flown down to meet her parents for the first time when she ended the 3 year relationship by text…saying her feelings had changed. I’m devastated, but like you I work in the same company as she does. When I saw her for the first time in weeks she didn’t even say hello…I want her to be happy, I know all too well life is not a fairly tale, but how do I act when I see her at work? Do I say hello? She has chosen not to respond to me last few text messages and emails, so I stopped sending them. She knows how I feel, and she has been brutally honest with her assessment of a future for us. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.