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I love the “mind numbingly boring things women force other women to go through” thought. YES!!! Why do we do this to ourselves and each other?? And you know, The Ruminant, maybe I’m NOT an Introvert! Maybe I’m just a modern day Recluse! There can be a difference!! I don’t want counsin-in-law’s grandbaby’s far away baby showers. I don’t want Family Ministry committees. I don’t want email lists, FaceBook Events, RSVPS. I hate that stuff! I don’t even do XMas cards anymore! (How Unfeminine, I know.) In my next life I will be a clueless guy. I swear to God. Next life I will be fishing, hunting and farting happily ever after. Or whatever it is guys do. 😉
We are too Nice!
This is why we are so afraid of saying “NO”! Even to boundary busting BF’s female friends who have no female friends!! What are we afraid of???
We are afraid of being Too Much and Not Enough. But that is another post. I hope I didn’t Post Jack, but I feel it is all related!
When we say “No” we are a Bee-ach. Or “What’s our problem”?