Hi Steve,

I understand your pain and feel sorry for what you went through. Yet, I can’t answer on why people cheat…but see the brighter side, would you want to stay with a cheat? No, right? That way you’re better off for it ended. It’s gets more difficult when we try to find the answers of betrayal and cheating. When discussed with one of my friend, she suggested, some people ARE that way. Flirt, cheat! That should be the end of trying to understand them. Better not to break our head on it. And when stopped thinking about it, I find myself more at peace. I too, used to feel resentment for my ex would have many more to date, woo, sleep, but at the end it is who HE/SHE is, NOT ME. So better to value ourself, for the person we’re.

Your ex is unlucky for she couldn’t value a wonderful person like you.

I too, get thoughts like, no one would love me again, but life changes with time, I’m living on hopes…we have a saying in Hindi ‘Umeed (hope) par duniya (world) kaayam hai (goes on). It means, after all, ‘World is alive on hopes’. And so are we!

And to answer ‘I don’t know how to re-start my life’…. Your life has already re-started. Love yourself to the fullest! Give yourself the best of everything, you deserve it!

Lots of love and positivity to you… Keep posting here whenever you feel you need someone to listen to you…