Thanks everyone for your insightful thoughts 🙂

Hi Steve @guitardude

Re: forgiveness

Big blue has been through a lot and he has learnt the same things that most people do when they go through such experiences – FORGIVE and you set yourself free from all the pain (emotional, physical, mechanical, chemical, financial etc). However, I am starting to now realise after reading so many posts on this forum about forgiveness, it is not possible for people to forgive if someone asks them to. We do not learn from other people’s experiences until we go through them. And guess what, it is correct. Our brain only learns from mistakes and it has to be our own mistakes. Some people learn sooner from their mistakes, some people take a lifetime and some never learn and die questioning. Choice always remains in our hands though to live a happy existence.

I wish you all the best in your journey and I hope one day you will be able to forgive yourself and free yourself. Whether that day is today or in 10 years, it is your journey to live and discover. I just want you to know that you are loved by you. I would also like to leave you with this quote: ” everything that has happened in our lives is just preparing us for the moment yet to come”.

Hi Mags @mags

Read your earlier posts about PMR and fibromyalgia. Your healing lies in forgiving your mother. You think you could do that for yourself ? Think about it.

Cheers

Jasmine