Lindsay,

Only one advise I would like to give based on my experience on the same lines. Make sure that the person who wants to be with (which I believe here is Pete) is not out of manipulation, insecurity to lose you or the zest to win you over.

Shane seems to be more mature. I had to end up 6 years relation/2 yrs marriage with someone I considered my best friend (like you mentioned about Pete). Of late, I have realised it is better to be married to someone who’s more mature than you.

Also, at this stage it must feel exciting that you have choices to chose from, make wise choice. For me it turned out, it was good to walk out of both the choices and take a neutral path, as both had grudges inside of them, knowing that I was shuffling between two of them for a period of time. Which made the relation go sour.

I’m single now and pretty happy, content, satisfied and enjoying my space like never before. It was not easy, pretty much like a roller-coaster ride.

I have just shared my experience here. I’m sure you’ll take a wise and well-thought decison which is good for you.

Blessings and wisdom to you…