Thanks again everyone. It is good to be part of a community where people actually try to be decent to one another. Big Blue, I just wanted to mention that I appreciate your first post. You went through something similar and you came through it better off. It is only normal to let people know that things will change and you won’t feel a certain way forever.

It makes sense to let go and forgive her. I will never say it to her face, but when I say it to myself, I know that weight will be lifted. It’s good that you have a working relationship with you ex. It won’t happen with her and I. She is a head case and that is as nice as I can put it.

I’m glad you spoke your mind. The best way out of situations like this is action. Sometimes you just get paralyzed by your own thoughts.
Take care