Hi Mermaid,

You are still very young. And to give up one of the belief systems of your faith, travel to a different country, AND live with him would rock anyone’s world, no matter how old and self-assured they were.

Unless you’re in a solid marriage (and even then sometimes) it can be normal to have a shadow of anxiety and doubts.

You might be more comfortable in your own place, having a space of your own. Faith has nothing to do with that one. Or the boyfriend, or state of the relationship, for that matter.

But, that’s just me.