Hi Lurker,

I see you are in a pickle – as some would say. Here are just a couple thoughts I have to share.

First, make a list of all your possible faults. One? Two? Ten? No worries there is no minimum and there is no maximum. Then, ask some family, or some close friends, if you could review it with them. Get their input. Ask whether they agree with your list. Ask them if you missed anything. Smile when you ask that one to show you want honest input. Take notes. Then take a couple days to let it simmer. Like a sauerbraten pot of thoughts and feelings. Then, take your list and your pen back and ask them to really really write down your possible faults. Add your own as they occur to you.

What do you think comes next?

Big blue

• This reply was modified 10 years, 4 months ago by Big blue.