The Ruminant
Yes you are right maybe I should have presented my question as “When a friend changes on you and you dont understand why , should you let go or try to get the friendship back even though you have tried countless times” When it comes to the gossiping I really don’t feel as if I am gossiping about her at all I feel more like I am letting my heart out in a place where I will not be judged for it to be honest:) I guess like you I have not really dedicated myself to anyone I know at all really other than my husband and my family , but not really friends and when I think about it its not really that bad not to have that many close friends. As long as you love yourself really and take care of those around you. And I don’t know if I am misunderstanding you or if you are misunderstanding me about “needing her to give something to me” because thats not what I wanted at all , just wanted to feel as though I had a friend who truly cared for me and my happiness and could share that with me, not what benefit I could get from her, and your right it should be about the joy friends give to each other that should count !
Thanks
ALpal