Wow! This evening got worse for me. So maybe I’m over thinking this but my rant earlier…..was it self absorbed and pitiful?

I get this text from a friend whom I recently re-connected with from years ago and he says….

“I guess you don’t have much need for my friendship since I only hear from you when you’re struggling. Take care.”

So, is it true, maybe a little, maybe a lot but then he says….

“I’ve struggled for years and manage to think of others…..that’s not condemnation that love bro.” What?

I want to be able to own my stuff and I get where he’s coming from but is that not superiority or what? That’s Love Bro????

Am I way off base – is this night a wake up call for me. Am I a horrible person? That just seems mean what this guy said.

Any thoughts? Should I start a new thread for things like this?