Thank you, Daniel, for your insights.

It is my opinion though, that being kind is part of civil behaviour. It’s just not one of those things that would cause arousal in most people. A lovely way of being, of course, especially when it’s genuine. That’s another thing though. There are men out there who think that being kind entitles them to something in return, and that makes the whole thing rather ugly. There are also men who are polite towards hot women, but not towards plain women, and that’s where their true colours are shown. Not actually kind and generous, but passive aggressive and manipulative.

Men, and women, who show signs of a healthy body and a healthy mind are attractive. Attraction goes up along with the chances of survival. Of course there are all kinds of kinks and twists along the way, based on our personal experiences, but generally speaking, being a healthy and strong specimen will be attractive to others.