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@Kelsi What i’m thinking truly is that i don’t need a psychologist cause i’m not dealing with HUGE problems and i’m not desperate…Sometimes when i feel bad i’ll think that need it,but these thoughts are rare.
Also i think that solving your problems on your own , it’s a triumph with a crown. Each problem is here for us as a challenge we must face with…….we need to overcome challenges on ourselves.
No longer happy.The feeling of visiting his profile and the pictures and all that stuff are not healing anymore.When i first discovered his profile (one year almost since then- he didn’t have a profile he created a profile after we broke up and i found it!)
i was terrified of hurting , (i first found his sister’s profile and months later he created one!) and even if I knew it i was continuing to do that.I think that i’m causing the pain. Yes,me.
The relationship wans’t fun, at the beginning it was good but this was for 3-4 months most.After these months the relationship was a suffer…..we had problems such as the distance and a very toxic ‘air’ between us.Although, i rarely think of the bad times…OK I DON’T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP…These was just more infos.(not useful).

Today I’ll try to accomplish all of my 4 goals,and I know i’ll feel bad when I’m not doing the same as the other days ,it will hurt but i have to do it in order to live happy. Getting out of the habit feels very uncomfortable and I maybe afraid of the uncomfortable zone.BUT no change will happen if i’m doing the same and the same each day!
I wish you all have a great day!