Sue,

I have known many people who have been charged with a DUI, including two members of my own family. My uncle and my grandfather were both drunk drivers who had multiple DUI’s. My grandfather lost his life in a car accident, but my uncle; I believe that the crippling shame made it worse for him. Not only was he a drinker but also a drug abuser and he lost his wife and kids through divorce. I don’t believe that there was any going back after he had lost that much. So think about how much you’ve lost, but more importantly think about how much you still have.

My friend and previous co-worker has succeeded in getting past the setbacks of a DUI. He has worked in fast-food restaurants, car-wash places. Although they are low-paying jobs, any bit helps. As long as you know that you’ve learned from your mistake, give yourself another chance. Think positively about what is here in the now, not what you have lost in the past. Things can get better the moment you start looking up.

I hope all goes well,
Jonny