He blew it. It’s over (for him). Now it is all about the child. Make sure your son visits his father, grandparents, all the aunties, uncles, cousins and in-laws on his father’s side. So often that the young dad feels weird for not being more involved/outwardly proud/doting. That he can’t take a step without running into his son. Make it a weekly or at least monthly thing that he is connected to/sees that side of the fam. This young father has to realize that his son does exist, and everyone knows it. Especially when all his family starts Sharing the child’s pic on his FB Wall! That he is and always was, “Wanted”. And that you are “a special someone” that he did meet. Too bad he blew it.