Hi, I’m happy for you. It sounds like you’re doing the right thing for you. You need have your own identity. Especially if you’ve made decisions about getting engaged and he’s suddenly going back on it. I think my boyfriend is similar. Controlling without realising it. I’m not sure how it will work out for us. He’s told me recently that he wants kids not much after he’s forty and I am pretty much going to have to agree to it or the relationship is over. There’s been a lot to it but that’s it in a nutshell. I don’t know how I can agree to something I that I don’t know that I want so we’ll see how it goes.

I’m really glad you’re reclaiming your life! I’m sure once you get back into your own space you’ll feel empowered and like your old self again! Good luck xx