Hi Steve,

Couldn’t stop myself from sharing my experience on the same lines…this friend whom I like is giving me mixed signals too… I swear it’s just so irritating…like occupies your mind with different thoughts everytime. Each time I discuss with him, I end up being disappointed!

IGNORE is the policy that would work it seems. I will share what he gave the reason of not proceeding:-
According to him, love marriage brings defame to his family and society. And he doesn’t patience (‘courage’ here) to pursue a girl and then talk to family and convince them. Oh my…My mind is blowing………..
He chooses easy way out, to marry a girl his parents choose for him. And the care he shows towards me, is just a friendly one! Whoa, well, I don’t know if even after knowing that your friend feels more than a friend for you, one would show that extra care? Hiding! Seriously, I can’t take it man…..
I’m telling myself now, there are some people I just can’t understand and I SHOULDN’T try to understand them either. I’m too happy with myself to make anyone mess up my peace of mind!.

Gosh! Can’t believe, I was writing here and guess who comes to my desk, him!, made me nervous, phew…….to return an empty carry bag that we used on trip (group) together. Seeeee, just when I decide to stop thinking about him, he comes being polite and extra nice. Kills me! He doesn’t know what I feel for him. 🙁