Well, our society has become very shallow. They don’t understand deep connections much less have them. We are a consumer society as well. If you can’t bring something to the table, then you’re outta there! Oh, and if you’re a girl, you have to look good, too.

That being said, sometimes the greatest act of love is to get someone out of your life so they can shape up, or to protect your boundaries. (i.e. Not letting a raging alcoholic around your young family, or to cast a friend loose who hits on your spouse).

Can you revisit your people ten years later for a fresh start? I don’t know your particular story, but enjoy the time you have, even if it’s by yourself for now!