Thanks for your replies. I only got a chance to watch a couple of minutes of the video this morning so I’ll watch it later but I really does make sense and mirrors everything im thinking. I really do want to change and am looking for another job. Nobody should stay in a situation they’re unhappy with. Im finding everything a bit overwhelming atm which probably means that Im not putting in as much effort to the job search as I could do which is stressing me out further. If they ask I’ll stay that I have been working as well as I could and am struggling with personal issues.

The next question is whether to wait until a new job comes along or just quit now. I don’t want to be unemployed, but i also dont want to stay in a bad situation and get more and more anxious and stressed and making myself unwell. Im sitting at my desk trying to hold back tears as i write this. At what point do you think that you should just leave and let it go without something else to fall back on?