Hi Alpal,

I’m a “mere” housewife too, and some people just cannot wrap their heads around it. It helps that I have kids, so then it is more understandable. As you get older, you more become one of the oldest, if not the oldest, person in the room. It’s easier to stand in your power, in your acceptance, and in your decision when you’re 40.. 60.. 80.

If I were in your shoes (your mileage may vary) I would finish the degree just to shut everyone up and to have that in my back pocket.

I would also have kids if you want them (they also help “justify” staying at home).

Third, I would make it a home to be proud of, and invite everyone over for holidays. Use it as a meeting place. Do volunteer work. Be the Matriarch of your family, and the Queen of your neighborhood!

Keep your head up, sister! I live the dream and “get it”!