Silly little woman? Nah. I’m a grown up woman!!

Well thanks for all the ‘truths’ you have bestowed upon me, but I wasnt asking how I can benefit him in this situation (:you arent what he needs”), as clearly his needs are not in my hands anymore. I was seeking advice to get me through my understanding of the situation.

You absolutely can love someone despite your lack of self love. The only thing it really does is make you more selfish when that relationship inevitably does open you up. We are not all zen buddhist monks, we are all at different stages of healing or re growth- But that dosen’t mean we cant love another person regardless. If that were the case, I would not have moved 2k miles to be with this person.

The way you have addressed this post heavily stinks of shame. “You arent what he needs” “Silly little woman” among others.

The truth is that we are never alone. Internally we may be individuals, we are all unique, but we are never alone. And its interesting how you tell me that I shouldnt accept the advice of others telling me how to feel- and then you go and do the same.

get lost.

• This reply was modified 10 years, 1 month ago by Mango Luv.