@Inky
So basically, spirituality is more of finding and developing who you truly are as a person? And the end goal and means to achieve this would be up to us? 😀 We can be called spiritual without having psychic abilities? That sounds cool. I think I sort of get it. At least I hope I did.

I really liked what you said about not having to follow. 🙁 I’ve been feeling all down lately cause I always got this impression that I have to do a number of things like give up sex or clear my mind, etc. to reach my higher self. 🙁 feel like…i could achieve the same thing by doing something else.

and i might sounds nuts here but…
..I mean i really want to use my psychic potentials (they say we all have them) but i really dont want to go through all these mumbo jumbo steps…sometimes i dont see the point in them. i want to come up with my own steps, really. :/

thanks so much inky for dealing with my babbling. you helped me a lot.