Happy Holidays Somehow,

This is why I never moved in with anyone. I wouldn’t even leave a toothbrush at their place, know what I mean? It did seem to make them very nervous, me being able to leave at any time with no drama. As simply as driving away! LOL

Also, if there’s no engagement by the second year you have to move on if you have any hope of having a natural/biological family.

It’s not an ultimatum. Just tell him, “It’s not working.” No begging, pleading, long talks, explanation, ultimatum. He knows. He already knows.

Simply put all your stuff in storage and crash at a friend or relative’s place for a few weeks. People love to play rescuer and help during a crisis.

And who knows? An empty house, the wonder of what you could possibly be doing, and you breaking up first might propel him to propose this holiday ~ once he figures out where you’re staying!

Hang in There, be Strong,

Inky

• This reply was modified 10 years ago by Inky.